Friday Weighin: 202 lbs (a five pound gain for no reason)
UPDATE – Sat. 209 lbs (+7 lbs), next day over night another +7 lbs for no reason)
I didn’t cheat on my 52nd birthday Tuesday and I have not (nor will I ever) touch any Halloween candy – but evidently just being around it and just the thought of what a piece of birthday cake would have tasted like has caused a 5 lb gain.
I KNOW it’s water weight – but still it’s frustrating. With the weight gain of 1.5 lbs last week that is a total of 6.5 lbs gained in two weeks – for NO reason – I don’t touch anything that is not a powder packet from Medifast and one small portion of lean protein with a green veggie for dinner. The Medifast medical staff that I have been working with for the past 12 weeks are at a loss and totally have no clue what is wrong (everyone else on the program loses 2 to 5 lbs a week), and I barely lost anything (only 4.5 lbs in the first 10 weeks) and now week 11 and 12 I’m gaining – their only advice at this point is to see a doctor.
Prior to starting Medifast I was on my own diet (daily calories 800 to 900 – which was approved early 2006 by my doctor when I started) but as of June of this year the weight loss had stalled so I decided to go with Medifast to get things going again.
Over the past several decades I have seen doctors again and again – they all say eat less and trust me I would NEVER eat again if it were possible. I’ve been on 800 to 900 calories a day for over 70 weeks now and since June of this year I have been gaining and losing the same few pounds over and over.
This week I was having a lot of symptoms that I have had on and off for years. I have been having severe stabbing pains in my tongue again, with a swollen hard lump to the right side of my throat – mostly likely a lymph node. Which makes sense since I KNOW whenever I gain weight because I feel it filling up under my arms and upper thighs – all the places where lymphs are located. The area where my liver is, feels bloated and tender again. I’m more exhausted then usual – though it’s hard to tell since I’m always tired, but the brain fog is worse this week. The hot flashes and night sweats seem to have increased a bit as well – I get so hot sometimes I just stand outside or wear as little as possible, but when it’s over I’m freezing and have a hard time getting warm. All these symptoms have always been accompanied by weight gain in the past – and I am definitely gaining this time and it’s a LOT — even as I am typing I can feel it sorta of seeping in under skin.
Oh well, I have reduced my calories to as low as humanly possible – if my body insists on being fat and doctors can’t help me – I have no clue what else to do. I will give it one more try with a doctor, and plan to go next week and see what she says (I have off work Thurs. and Fri.). I don’t hold out much hope though that she will be able to help me.
I have a list of tests I would like to have done including a full range of thyroid tests (again!), blood sugar tests, liver enyzmes, c-protein levels for inflammation and hormones. If possible I would like my cortisol levels checked too – that is done with a salvia test (samples taken 4 times during the day), but that may be asking too much for a doctor to handle and I may end up having to get it done myself (through the mail). I don’t want to overwhelm the doctor by being to pushy. I will be insistant, but I want to build a good relationship with the doctor and not have her think I’m just a nut case.
I have been reading about the dangers of soy and how it’s really not healthy – perhaps it is possible that I’m not reacting well to it (soy is the protein used for the Medifast meals). Perhaps it is the high protein based diet that is causing even more inflammation that usual. One source says to avoid high protein diets all together if you have a fatty liver because the body can’t handle it and over loads the liver causing all kinds of problems – and I do have a fatty liver according to a liver scan I had done a couple years ago – (any one who is very overweight almost certainly does).
I was talking with my hubby about what to do this morning and I ended up breaking down in tears. I realized just how frightened I am of food. It truly terrifies me. I don’t know if I should stick with the Medifast for now or try something else. Medifast works so well for 1000s of people – but so far not for me, but I like it because I don’t have to deal with food at all. I don’t have to weigh, measure or cook. Once a week I prepare enough of a lean protein and green veggie for my dinners for the week and put them in containers. The rest of my daily meals are just packets I mix with water. It’s great! The thought of going back to counting every single calorie, precise measuring and dealing with a variety of food every day makes my stomach knot up because I am truly frightened I will gain even more weight just adding veggies and fruit. Sure I’ve done it, and yes I know I can do it — but when it’s not working or worse I continue to gain a lot more weight, it is just an added stress and frustration that is making me tremble and weak at the knees at the moment.
However, just because I’m feeling a little emotionally vulnerable today – I will do what I have to do and get over it.
No matter what I will eat as little as possible for the rest of my life, I don’t care what I weigh I just want to feel and be well and take care of my health (and being over 200 lbs is not healthy and is putting a strain on my heart). No matter what the scale says, it won’t be because I gave in and ate any food other then my daily five packets of powdered meals and little protein and a little veggie once a day or whatever type of very resticted diet I decide to go on.
So this weekend I’ll be deciding – should I stay with the Medifast program or will I switch to the Rice House diet – this is the only one I feel might be safe enough for me, (it allows only whole grains, fruit and veggies in measured portions), it has been extremely successful for over 25 years for 1000s of people.
I’ll be sure to keep everyone posted on my decision and the unfolding melodrama of the scale and stay tuned for the next episode of “Diary of a Diet”.
Health and Happiness to all.
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November 2nd, 2007 at 12:33 pm
1 Catherine wrote…
I’m sorry that I missed your birthday. I had been sick with stomach problems that sent me to the hospital for thirty days and about another 15 for recovery.
I’m also sorry that your in turmoil with your weight loss. I’ve been in your shoes. The same thing happened to me with Jenny Craig. I’m just glad that you are not giving up.
November 2nd, 2007 at 12:59 pm
2 Carol Bardelli wrote…
If I had a nickel for every time I gained a load overnight I’d be richer than Bill Gates. I’ve gotten to where I ignore it, drink a gallon of water to flush out the sodium and keep on going. Believe me, I totally sympathize! It’s a pain but at least it’s not body fat.
Happy Birthday To You! (My 48th was on Halloween).
Cheers, Carol
November 2nd, 2007 at 7:48 pm
3 Cindy Moore wrote…
Happy Birthday!!!
I can’t believe you are sticking with this when you’re eating such low calorie and not loosing!!
Have you looked into low carb plans? I was unable to sustain a loss following other diets, and even “eating healthy”, but have found with watching carbs I can eat much more and enjoy it more….and have lost fairly steadily. I am a meat eater, so my plan (Protein Power) is very easy to stick with. Meat and veggies with a little fruit (berries mostly) and an occasional slice of bread or toast and I’m happy, healthy and much thinner! And at least 90-95% of my diet is whole, natural foods….the healthiest way to eat.
I could never last long on such low cal, I’d be too hungry!! Are you hungry? I can only stand being hungry so long…..then end up falling off the diet and ending up back at square 1.
November 3rd, 2007 at 10:03 pm
4 PAM wrote…
I,TOO, FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN DIETING MOST OF MY LIFE. I WEIGH 203
AND ALTHOUGH IT ISN’T A HEALTHY WEIGHT, IT IS MUCH BETTER THAN
THE 267 THAT I WEIGHED 2 YEARS AGO. I AM TRYING TO GET TO 170
WHICH I THINK WOULD BE OK FOR MY AGE. FEELING BETTER IS MY MAIN OBJECTIVE ALTHOUGH I MUST ADMIT FITTING INTO CLOTHES AND GOOD COMMENTS FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAKE ME A HAPPIER PERSON ALSO.
WOULD JUST LIKE TO HEAR HOW SOME OF THE REST OF THE GALS ABOUT 68 BUT YOUNG AT HEART ARE DOING!!
WISHING EVERYONE THE BEST,
PAM
November 4th, 2007 at 11:03 am
5 Lady Rose wrote…
Thanks for the birthday well wishes and dieting support everyone. Happy Birthday to you too Carol!
Cindy – the program I am on is low carb (Medifast = 5 protein powder meals a day, plus 1 dinner of a small amount of lean protein and some veggie). And yes I’m hungry most of the time – but not always. When I first started I was constantly hungry, but now it only about half the time.
I had tried Atkins a few years ago and I gained so much weight I couldn’t believe it – so I called them directly and the medical staff said to eat CARBS! and told me a lot info. that was in the books, and said without good carbs the metabolism shuts down.
I’ll keep everyone posted on my progress.
November 4th, 2007 at 12:04 pm
6 Matt wrote…
Ups and downs are part of the natural cycle of life. If you have a spread sheet program on your computer put in a list of dates and weigh in results and have it plot a line graph. The general downward curve of the graph will make you feel much better. You will also see that loss is not anywhere near and even line.
November 7th, 2007 at 7:57 pm
7 karen wrote…
I have been on 800 cals for the last eleven days and have yet to lose the first pound. I was so glad when I found your site, because I have never heard of anyone else that had the same problem that I do. All of the “diet helps” are tips on how to eat less. I know how to do that. What I can’t understand is why there are no results. In the past, the first pound comes off on the 21st day of the diet. Do you have any more information or insight on why this is happening?
November 11th, 2007 at 10:29 am
8 Lady Rose wrote…
Hi Karen – I’m sending off an email to you this morning.
Pam – I agree that it’s about feeling good! I just do my best to keep head on straight and focused on overall health and the not scale – but some days that is easier said then done!
We all have to stick together and pick each other up when we stumble, offer support and encouragement and group hugs as needed.